If people do judge tell them to mind their business! What you need around you is positive vibes, do what's best for you! I'd probably tell the midwife as they can offer you the emotional support! He could come around eventually, if he's still having issues with his mental health he needs to get help first! Keep your head high, you'll smash this!
not judging cus me and my boyfriend planned our baby only dating two months too. i went through the exact same thing last year when i accidentally got pregnant with my ex and i was seriously manipulated and threatened so i had to get the abortion but i regret it so much and so sad i didn’t fight more for the baby. my opinion is, do what’s best for you- it was a planned baby and what he done is obviously wrong but he wanted that baby at one point too, let him be angry and let him block you etc but if you want this baby- you have the baby. maybe he needs a little help from professionals and he might be back to himself if that’s a option? not sure what to say but i wish you the best🫶🏼
I’m so sorry you are going through this. There is always support available even if he doesn’t feel capable of being a parent. Some of the best mama’s I know are single parents. I hope you have friends / family around to lean on. I would definitely tell the midwife - if nothing else they will be able to offer emotional support when needed. You can do this 💪🏼
You will be fine. You got this 🫶🏻 if he wants nothing to do with baby that’s on him. X