Husband going away on stag do
I wanted to get people’s thoughts and opinions on partners going away after having a baby. My husband is wanting to go on a stag do 2 months (roughly) after having our 1st baby. Due around 17th June and stag do is roughly end of August for 3 nights.
Personally I feel a bit upset about it as I feel he doesn’t understand my feelings, when I talk about it he gets really defensive. And I think it’s a little selfish as feel we would still be struggling with a new baby at this point but he seems to think it’ll all be fine, I’m not sure if he just doesn’t understand how children affect lives.
Can I see what other people think to hopefully either validate my feelings or help me understand that it’s okay?