Toxic MIL and SIL
Long story short my mil is a narcissist and if she doesn’t get what she wants it’s everyone else’s fault and I stood up to her and won’t tolerate the disrespect from her so now I’m not allowed on her property or anything until I apologize (which I will not do) because I am not in the wrong, she kicked me out when I was 5 months pregnant, threatened to withhold my medication from me that I have to take to keep my unborn son healthy and put me under so much stress that I had to go to labor and delivery at 26 weeks pregnant to stop preterm labor. Since then I have been highrisk having to get multiple ultrasounds and tests done on me and baby because of everything, and on top of that I developed prenatal depression and high blood pressure and I’m only 19 years old. I thought his sister and I got along just fine and I confided in her about some stuff about my pregnancy and how I feel about her mom and now I’m somehow the problem with her too. My fiancé is trying to go no contact with his mom but still wants to see his sister which I was fine with until she called him and is also guilt tripping him into feeling bad for not dropping everything to go and see her and it’s all my fault according to her and she told him that I need to grow up and that I can’t keep my baby out of their lives just because of an argument. I don’t care about the argument that happened with his mother and I, I care about what happen after the fact and all the complications I had to go through because of that woman and I will not tolerate it and that makes me the bad guy. For the last few months of my pregnancy I’ve been on “couch rest” because of having contractions and his sister decided to tell everyone behind my back that I’m faking it and everything else and is then saying she just wants everyone together for the holidays because she misses us so much and wants to see us. Keep in mind thanksgiving is in like 2 days and his mom and sister asked if my fiancé was doing anything and that I can come as long as I stay quiet and don’t cause any problems and I told him I will not be going and if he wants to then fine that’s on him but I will not be sacrificing my happiness and health to please them and his mother is expecting him to come for Christmas too after I have my son who will be a newborn without me and stay the night even though she knows I will be exclusively breastfeeding and she’s all about her grandson and how she can’t wait to be his “nana” it makes me sick, she’s the one that caused all these problems with my pregnancy and doesn’t care and just wants what she wants and I don’t want her to have anything to do with my son because she’s not entitled to him in any way shape or form and my fiancé keeps getting upset with me because he thinks she still deserves to be in his life because she is his grandma and I don’t care what her title is to my son and I keep telling him that. And the cherry on top is she said that she deserves to be in the delivery room while I’m giving birth so she can be the first to see him and hear him. I’m so fed up and don’t know what to do because I feel like my mil and sil are like brainwashing my fiancé into thinking it’s ok and I feel like they are all working against me and I don’t know what to do.