Not feeling intense love for baby
I'm wondering what other people's experience has been with feeling love for your baby. Did you get the intense rush of love? Has it been a love that gradually builds? Do you feel numb to it all?
I feel really guilty because I didn't feel the intense emotions for my baby that I thought would happen, which I've since come to terms with and thought it would happen by now. But I still don't and she's 15 weeks. I feel like she's a family member I've known my whole life and I absolutely do everything for her, but my sister has had a baby and when I see her I get that thing where I want to gobble her little cheeks up, but I don't have that for my own baby. I see her cuteness when she's asleep but it's not intense. It's making me feel weird, I was wondering if anyone else has/had that and how long it took for you to feel the proper 'love' feeling?