So sorry youâre going through this! I genuinely hope youâre okay. Youâre absolutely doing the right thing. Leaving a toxic situation that you and those babies donât deserve. Youâre clearly an amazing mother & love your children with all your heart. He needs help, and until heâs able to get it, I wouldnât go back. Heâll just continue to be how he is. Youâre doing the right thing. You are in no way failing your babies. X
yelling in your 6 y/oâs face?????? sorry iâd run for the hills!! please protect yourself & those babies. if he canât see what heâs doing is wrong & has no intention on working on himself & changing his behaviour then i get to say it- but things are only going to get worse. he has a drinking problem if he drinks every night & thinks itâs normal. especially since you say itâs not just one drink, he drinks to get drunk essentially. i hope your okay & feel free to meet me for a friendly chat if you ever feel to x
Honestly I'd leave him. You're not failing your kids by getting them out of a toxic situation. If anything you'd be failing them by staying. Your kids will grow up thinking that the way he acts is normal and that will shape them and be their baseline for future friendships, relationships etc. I know it's tough but you gotta think about how much of a better life they could have than an alcoholic dad who gets drunk and argues with a 6 yo. It's only gonna get worse from here and if you leave and come back, it shows him that you'll just put up with however much of his shit and he'll never stop. It doesn't have to be over for good if you're not ready for that, but stay gone till he proves with actions he's changing. This isn't healthy for you or your kids.
Just wanted to tell you what a wise and brave 6 year old you have âşď¸ she's a reflection of how well you're doing in raising them, despite your partner's actions, and you will make the right choice, I'm sure of it đŻ