Splitting the night feeds with partner
I'm off on leave and he works 12 hrs shifts 4 days a week. When he's working I do all the night feeds, have my little girl all day and she only likes contact naps. I struggle to get any housework done. If she does settle in a cot it's only enough time to get some food/drink and go the toilet. I'm so exhausted by the weekend so I think its only fair he takes over the night feeds on the weekend. She gets unsettled about 5am everyday and I want him to take her downstairs so I can catch up on sleep. But he has said when does he get time for a lie in?! We have argued about it for a few weeks now, so we're going to try and take it in turns getting a lie in on sat/sun.
How is everyone else splitting night feedings with their partners. And when will ut get better and get more sleep. She is 8 weeks old now. We are both so shattered 😴😴😴