SS has potential ASD/ADHD and I can't cope
I have an 18mo with my partner, really traumatic birthing experience so still suffer with ptsd and ppd. My SS is 4yo and I really can't handle having him around. We have him 70/30 and his behaviour is getting worse; punching spitting, swearing, screaming etc and my daughter cries everytime he's here. My partner and I have breakdowns everytime too. I don't know what to do because I know mentally we can't cope with him but don't really have a choice... any advice?