My husband watches porn behind my back, but won’t let me own a vibrator?

Does that make any sense? We’re literally arguing and he jumps to accusations saying how his penis doesn’t satisfy me like ?? No one said that. This is so frustrating.

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Absolutely does not make sense 1 bit

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Haha won’t LET you?! Girl, buy that vibrator, wrap it up and let him watch you open it on Christmas morning 🥰

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Stupid.

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You could easily say the same thing to him no difference

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No sense at all

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Girl go get yourself your vibrator. His logic makes absolutely no sense. He expects you to *act* like porn stars do and pretend his penis is sooo amazing or whatever. 🐂 💩

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I'm in the same boat.

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So he’d basically be jealous of an object…

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Won't LET you?? 👀👀

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Tell him his penis doesn't vibrate, learn how to do that and then come back 😂

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He’s quick to say his penis doesn’t satisfy you but he’s searching woman to ✊🏼 over like your body don’t satisfy him?

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😂😂😂😂

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my husband told me to get out of the house he pays for because of this😂😂

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That's stupid, toys make everything better

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Book yourself a night away with your new friend 😂

Jokes aside, he needs to get a grip! He’s projecting his insecurities on to you big time

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Now you know your husband best, but for me and my husband, I would agree with him! Yep, his penis doesn't satisfy me completely because I need clitoral stimulation too. I'd use it as a way to start the conversation about how to make sex better for both of us.

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He sounds insecure. Tell him if hes getting off so do you.

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He doesn't have control over you. Use that dang vibrator! :)

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Girl go get that vibrator 🤭

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