Low Libido

My sex drive is so lacking. Ever since I had my son (3 years ago) I feel like my sex drive has never been the same. I have no problem with lubrication and Not to be weird but I want to be turned on by everyday things . I enjoy sex but never really crave it unless it’s been atleast a week without it. When me and my husband go on vacation it does feel more existent so I assume maybe it’s stress? Does anyone have any suggestions how I can boost it or get back to like when I was 20
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Having children in general will lower libido. Moms are engaged in a way that's taking care of children, housework, errands and work and not really in tune with sexuality. Imo. It's stressful (which lowers libido) it's time consuming so sex is more like a distraction. We're often sleep deprived and want to take every opportunity to sleep. I don't think there's anything abnormal about it. Even when it's sexy time our minds are wondering if we put that laundry in the dryer? If we picked up the snacks for Thursday's event... And so on. Taking time to physically connect in a non sexual way throughout the week helps but allow time each week to spend with just each other and no one else. And spice it up❤️‍🔥

Thank you 🙏

After my first, this didn't really happen. After my second it definitely did! I also recently read something, and i don't remember the exact wording, but something about if you breastfeed, it could lower your estrogen levels, which well effect your libido.... wherever i read it from seemed legit, but i can't remember where it was or how i found it to reference 😖 So finding a way to boost estrogen may help!

@Julie✝️ 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦❤️ spot on!

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