Sleep 😩

My little girl was an amazing sleeper from 3 months old, only waking if not well, until now. She’s 15 months and is waking almost every night for 2-3 hours in between 12-3. We’re in the middle of a nap transition but on one nap, she is still waking in the night. She is not playful but really restless. She seems absolutely knackered all the time at the moment, yet won’t go back to sleep in the early hours. I’m really struggling as I’m not very well, really run down, and really need some sleep to get better and it’s not happening. Anyone any ideas? 😩

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thank you. It’s our 3rd week currently with the odd day or 2 sleeping through. 😩 Hope you get some more sleep soon too!

Hey! My little one is 15 months too and we’re experiencing wake ups too 🥲 I’m sure my LO is teething too so it’s contributing to the wake ups because he cries! I found that me going in actually kept him awake for longer, so I leave him to it and he falls asleep quicker. I hope he goes back to sleeping soon though because mama is tired!! We’re on 5.25/5.5 wake time so not sure if we need to dial back to 5 hours in the morning!

thanks. It’s so tough. I’m going to look at overall amount of sleep in 24 hours and see if that gives me any clues. I feel her sleep needs overall may just have dropped a bit but her wake windows are still possible too short for 1 nap. Ive never had any issue with nap transition before. This one is horrid! 😩 Hope you get sorted soon!

FWIW on one nap we’re on WW of 5/6 as she sleeps roughly 13 hours in 24. There’s a big range though, I found the table here really helpful https://www.sleepfoundation.org/children-and-sleep/how-much-sleep-do-kids-need hope it improves for you soon!

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When does it get better?

I was crying on the phone with the perinatal mental health team today and the lovely lady, bless her, kept assuring me that it gets better. I kept telling her I hope so because people have been saying that since having my LO and it just feels like it keeps getting worse. She assured me it gets better....

Rant/WWYD

My sister (youngest, 24) has two kids, 4 & 1, and i (oldest, 30) just have my one who’s 6mo old right now, so i ask her for advice or call her to vent about things sometimes. Well im tired of her turning around and telling my other family members that I’m “losing my sh*t.” Literally have not lost my sh*t nor have i ever freaked out to her about my baby, i just call her to talk and tell her what stage my baby is in or talk through how im feeling, but she chooses to tell people that im like a complete nutcase or something which worries me that my family is going to start being judgmental about me as a mother or looking at me funny like I’m some fragile ticking time bomb.

What would you do in this situation? I’m already pretty much decided that I’ll stop telling her anything about my struggles, but I’m almost at the point where i feel like it should be confronted because she, of all people, should understand what I’m going through.

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8 week old in sleeping bag for first time as big enough! Do you feed your child in the night whilst in the sleeping bag or taken them out, feed then transfer back to sleeping bag before putting down?

i just want someone to talk to😔😔😔😔

when things get hard i have nothing not any support from my partner im convinced he doesn’t even love me anymore but thats another story
I have a 3 yo and a 2yo that are in bed sleeping only just now. I have a 1 yo that’s been sleeping from 8 o’clock to 10 o’clock. I just gave her her milk and she would’ve gone back to sleep if it wasn’t that
I lost her dummy earlier in the day when I went out
so now she won’t go back to sleep and she won’t accept any of the other dummy’s i have!😔😔and it’s 10 o’clock and I’m gonna be up until 3 o’clock with her and when she does want to go to sleep i won’t have any dummy to give her she will accept and she won’t sleep without it i just wanna cry 😔i have nobody to talk to and i feel so alone i get no support from anybody i’m so tired and i don’t feel well to top it off😔

Has anyone died their kids hair a fun color and have any recommendations for kid friendly hair dye that actually works and stays in the hair for a bit? 👀👀👀

She has 3b brown hair and wants kpop demon hunter purple

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I’m going crazy. Baby born at 2.26kg. Slow to put on weight. This last week hasn’t put on any. Been trying to feed him at night and he’s not interested at all. Fast asleep. During day he will have 5 minute gulps and that’s it. He don’t cry for milk. I’ve got to keep offering to him. I try to offer it every hour but I don’t know what I’m doing. HV said nutrition comes after 5 minutes so I should pump first and then give him. I find it so hard. I tried to pump one boob nothing came. The other abit came. Tried giving him express he’s not interested in that too. Sometimes he will go for a longer a feed but not long at all. He’s 4 months and is currently 5.46kg. I have no family or friend support here and wish I had a cook, cleaner and nanny to help with everything so I can concentrate on the little one. I don’t know what’s wrong with him but I’m loosing it. It doesn’t help that my also stressed generally about my relationship and life circumstances. Any advice that will work. Any comfort you can give. I’m fed up. Is this regression - not feeding. He’s fast fast asleep. I’ve been trying to push the nipple in but that mouth is closed shut. I took some clothes off. Changed his nappy but he’s still asleep. Please help