How should I answer??
He's a widowed single dad from the States and is currently deployed overseas. I'm a divorced single mom living in another continent. We have one child each. We met online.
He is retiring in April and intends to come visit me and wants to seal the deal during his visit.
I'm stalling it for two reasons -
1) I don't want to rush.
2) I have pending work issues that I need to clear up.
He says we should at least get engaged during his visit and then probably give it a year long distance so I have time to figure it all out.
Would this be a red flag? I still have to get to know him in person.