My partner and I have a very good friend of ours (Male) and the girl he has been seeing for about 2 years now has always treated him very poorly, especially so in a group situation around us to the point we are very uncomfortable inviting even him on our holidays because we can’t handle the way she speaks to and treats him. He had recently mentioned that he was to be moving home closer to his family and that it would mean they would have to seperate as she could not relocate which was great news considering he is way too nice a guy to break up with her despite knowing he is not in a good situation and certainly not with a good person. It is abusive from the outside looking in.
My partner and I have just recently had a baby after a long fertility haul and our pregnancy caused huge tension between our friend and his partner because she was jealous of our relationship which is much longer term and very contrastingly happy!
She has now out of the blue fallen pregnant after forgetting to take her control… he has been baby trapped.
It is incredibly uncomfortable for my partner and I and I absolutely do not support the pregnancy.
Does anyone have any advice on what if anything we should do to talk to or indirectly support our mate? 🥺