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He should have not been having sex let alone unprotected if he didn't want to have kids. Or date old women with old reproductive organs that can't make babies. So he should do the necessary. 1. Make him get DNA testing preferably in vitro because of the crazy gf 2. He needs to decide if he's gonna be a present or absent father 3. He needs to take responsibility 4. He should talk to her or if y'all are so close be the mediation between them. Next time tell him to choose wisely. No escaping this.
He can still be a father to the child without being in a romantic relationship with her
@Lav she was on the pill ? As far as he knew he was protected ? Wtf You don’t get to force someone to be a father especially if they’ve been trapped into it… why are you blaming him ?
@Kristy am blaming both not just him. She didn't get pregnant alone. Men don't get to cry wolf after a woman gets pregnant from sex. You have sex you either get pregnant or a disease or both. Birth control isn't 100pc full proof. How do you know it just didn't work this time?? You don't. However what's for sure he emptied his business in her so they both deal with the consequences. There is no trapping anyone when sex is consented between 2 sane adults.
He needs to tell her that he does not want to Child, and then he’s not ready for one, and if he cannot take his feelings into consideration, he will be walking away. Can you tell her that he’s not comfortable with the way that she treats him and is not ready to be in a committed relationship with a child involved because of said behaviour he needs to just be upfront and honest with her there’s no easy way out of this he’s literally is just gonna have to tell her how it is