Baby daddy does nothing

He acts dumb like he can’t change a nappy, he won’t feed him his pumped bottles and says ‘ he doesn’t like bottle ‘ so I cant rest.. he plays his games constantly, I ask him to bond with his son and place him beside him on the bed ( newborn ) and he turns away from him and goes on his phone. Men really ain’t shit by the seems of it. I paid for everything during pregnancy, he paid for my breast pump because I begged him to pay for SOMETHING. He then threatens to have my baby taken from me because I say I want to leave. But he won’t do shit for me or the baby, he got frustrated with me during labor during contractions and acted like HE was so tired- I was only in labor for 3 hours! He’s meant to be my boyfriend too.