Just a rant
I’m so tired of people telling me and my fiancé how much things are going to change (for the worst) when our baby gets here. How hard it’s going to be and that “we will see”. Not to bash any one but this is both of our firstborn. We didn’t have him on accident, we don’t resent each other or hate each other. We discus our goals and what we both want and expect out of one another. We dated for awhile before we even got to this point and have been living with each other for years. Besides the weirdos who are constantly trying to “warn us” we have a great support system as well. We understand things will be different but we are excited & it’s so draining dealing with ppl who push their personal experiences and feelings on to us. Yes things will change and of course not everything goes as planned but it’s so mean to continue to warn ppl of the negatives instead of uplifting them and speaking positive of their new journey.