Why is it so hard to make friends? Everyone I’ve met and tried to form a friendship just throws their issues and drama on me. I don’t mind being the friend that gives the advice but I don’t think it’s fair to throw that on someone without seeing how they’re doing and if they’re mentally prepared to handle that. I’ve had people spend 45mins-1.5 hours otp just talking about themself and when they’re done, they just hang up… not giving me a chance to talk about myself or my struggles. It’s making me wanna resort back to my old ways and just telling people how tf it really is and about themself but I’m not tryna be that person. All I be running into is users lol, Is it really that hard to have a friendship?