One last chance ?
I’m due in 2 weeks I told my baby’s dad my due date. I am now going to be induced or c-section next week.
1 week early but the thing is he hasn’t spoken to me in 6 months. He never once reached out I sent scan updates, last one he didn’t reply and one before was my 12 week scan was the last time I heard from him. I feel like I’ve done my part? Like he knows the due date he’s not stupid if he wanted to be at the birth I’m sure I would have had a message by now as it’s not on the actual date everyone knows this.
Should I give him a last chance message letting him know date of induction etc or leave it. For background he split up with me when I fell pregnant was pretty nasty about it as well, refused to come to scans but wanted updates. At the time he said he didn’t want to abandon his child and he has never said the words I won’t be involved but he has and he clearly is not arsed about mine or the babies welfare how could you be if you haven’t once asked the whole 9 months is the baby ok. I think he’s defaulting out of getting involved but he knows by saying the words it will look bad on him. He’s probably happy I’ve just left him alone most the time.