Should I be worried?
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Does he remove himself when he gets an erection? And Does he explain to the children to be careful of where they are hitting/touching?
Does he just sit there comfortably when that happens? Or does he get up? You know him best. Does he show signs of discomfort or seems perfectly fine? Is he generally VERY sensitive to touch?
Yes, I would be worried personally
Girl if you don't get your kids out that house from that man NOW. As a woman you should know better and that should be concerning period cause what the fuck.
That doesn’t sound normal. I would be loosing my fuckin mind right now if this was happening tbh. I would b looking at his computer,complete background check and check everything I could to make sure he wasn’t a pedo.
Is he cut 🍆?
@Dannygirl what does that mean?
@Rudy YES GIRL, &HEAVY ON LOOKING THROUGH HIS COMPUTER, TABLETS, PHONE FOR POR HISTORY AND PICTURES. ⚠️DELETE ANY BATHTIME PICS OF THE BABIES FROM HIS PHONE⚠️
What in the actual fuck
@Dannygirl no, he’s extra sensitive
Update, I ended up telling him about this “Reddit” post I seen and straight up asked him about it. He answered clearly and did not seem like he was trying to cover anything up. He told me sometimes guys just get hard when they are happy and sometimes sad or angry. He said it’s equivalent to a dog getting a 🍆 when they are excited to see you. He said it’s a sensitive spot on the body, but it’s very common when a guy is just happy or excited about everyday life. It’s never a full on 🍆 but it’s still noticeable. He said that even his father got that way and he never felt unsafe that way with his father. Thoughts?
@Rudy I’ve seen his criminal record check. We just had them done not long ago. It was clear. I check his phone on occasion when he goes to sleep with it in hand… always clear. I mean the occasional porn, but never anything concerning.
@Lori Ana he’s just playing with the kids usually, and it goes away. I told him for a while the baby monitor was broken and I watched to be sure. I’ve never seen anything but except for that, nothing else concerning
Can you guys ask your partners about the response he gave me?
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Response to your update: i still think he should excuse himself if he notices it happen while playing with the children
@Del I agree, I will make sure that happens from now on.
My partner is ‘extra sensitive’ I asked if he ever got a semi-erection when playing with ours kids (getting jumped on ect ect) and his response “absolutely no way! Yes it’s an involuntary act but not when my kids are on me” “if you jumped on me then things will be different 😉 “ I do think your partner needs to excuse himself when it happens or atleast tell the kids to stop/he has had enough. Weird that he just leaves it and lets them carry on.
Errrm I’d be concerned personally if my partner was getting an erection by OUR children climbing on him😬😬 I understand it’s an involuntary act and they can’t help it but it’s just weird when children are involved in my opinion.