• L
  • Rothschild, United States
  • 3 months ago

I want another baby

My son is almost 1 and I want another baby. My husband only wants one but I really want a girl. We dont have intercourse that much anymore anyways. We are planning on going on vacation in Feb (without my son) and are both in a wedding for a friends wedding in june. Is it bad I'm secretly wanting to be pregnant again. Anyone else dealt or dealing with it?
  • M
  • 2 months ago

It's not a bad thing, but keep communication open with your husband. It's the most important thing in a marriage. If you're not having sex as much, that could be a reason why he may not want another kid, because kids do slow that part of life down. I'm not saying it IS the reason though, I only mention it because it seemed important since you mentioned it. Sex is important to any relationship. I want another one already and my son is 9 months. My husband seems adamant on only having one since my last pregnancy complications relating to my new RRMS diagnosis. I didn't know that was a huge worry to him until we talked.

  • V
  • MA, US
  • 2 months ago

I hear what you are saying... I understand that you want another baby. But he's telling you that all he want is one. That's a big sign he already gave you. Is bad already that you are both missing out on great sex, imagine you with another baby and then he leaves No good. Just have patience

  • C
  • CT, US
  • 2 months ago

I have wanted another baby for a long time. Unfortunately, I’m 44 and the chances of me conceiving at this point are slim to none. My fiancé has a 23-year-old and I have an 11-year-old. It definitely doesn’t look like it is in our cards. But I do feel your pain

  • N
  • FL, US
  • 2 months ago

Talk to your hubby about itI was in your shoes hubby was happy with our 2 boys but we discussed it and decided to wait a year we did went on to have an angel son and finally our daughter and both of us decided we wre complete as a family. Come to a compromise agree to revisit the subject in 6 months in the meantime fo preparations for adding another child i.e. finances

  • A
  • PA, US
  • 3 months ago

I have 2 under 2 and I love it. My sons are 19 months apart to the day. My oldest will be 2 at the end of this month and my youngest will be 5 months on his birthday. It's hard. Really hard. But I absolutely wouldn't do it differently. If you want it, sit down and discuss it with your husband.

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