• L
  • Rothschild, United States
  • a month ago

I want another baby

My son is almost 1 and I want another baby. My husband only wants one but I really want a girl. We dont have intercourse that much anymore anyways. We are planning on going on vacation in Feb (without my son) and are both in a wedding for a friends wedding in june. Is it bad I'm secretly wanting to be pregnant again. Anyone else dealt or dealing with it?
  • M
  • 6 hours ago

It's not a bad thing, but keep communication open with your husband. It's the most important thing in a marriage. If you're not having sex as much, that could be a reason why he may not want another kid, because kids do slow that part of life down. I'm not saying it IS the reason though, I only mention it because it seemed important since you mentioned it. Sex is important to any relationship. I want another one already and my son is 9 months. My husband seems adamant on only having one since my last pregnancy complications relating to my new RRMS diagnosis. I didn't know that was a huge worry to him until we talked.

  • C
  • CT, US
  • 12 days ago

I have wanted another baby for a long time. Unfortunately, I’m 44 and the chances of me conceiving at this point are slim to none. My fiancé has a 23-year-old and I have an 11-year-old. It definitely doesn’t look like it is in our cards. But I do feel your pain

  • N
  • FL, US
  • 14 days ago

Talk to your hubby about itI was in your shoes hubby was happy with our 2 boys but we discussed it and decided to wait a year we did went on to have an angel son and finally our daughter and both of us decided we wre complete as a family. Come to a compromise agree to revisit the subject in 6 months in the meantime fo preparations for adding another child i.e. finances

  • A
  • PA, US
  • 24 days ago

I have 2 under 2 and I love it. My sons are 19 months apart to the day. My oldest will be 2 at the end of this month and my youngest will be 5 months on his birthday. It's hard. Really hard. But I absolutely wouldn't do it differently. If you want it, sit down and discuss it with your husband.

  • L
  • TX, US
  • a month ago

It’s not uncommon to feel that way. When my baby was 3 months old I just missed being pregnant. It was such a special experience. She’s 6 months now and I really want another one. Financially..... I see parents do it all the time. Growing up Hispanic, you always find a way to parent and eat. I’m really just waiting to loose more weight before trying again. Good luck!!!

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