Love language

How do y’all cope with a man who’s love language isn’t physical touch. he usually buys me things to show me that he loves me but I don’t need any of that stuff. I would much rather have him hold me and comfort me to show love. My husband works a lot and we haven’t seen each other in a good minute. We usually live a pretty sexual life but lately we have been distant. Sorry if that’s TMI lol I’ve been feeling very hormonal lately and crying out of nowhere, and I just simply want to be comforted my love language is physical touch, and I feel close to him when I am with him, he is very opposite of me and doesn’t seem to want to comfort me or know how to comfort me when I’m crying. He gets easily irritated when I cry and says I’m being dramatic. I feel so alone I just wanted advice on how y’all cope with this if any of y’all go through this
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Talk to him. Not in your emotional time, but when you're thinking clearly.

Talk about it! Tell him: here are some things that would be helpful when I'm emotional/crying.... and give him ways to help. To appreciate him, see what he would like. Does he like gifts or kind words/encouragement, and try to do more of that for him. It's an effort on both parts, but talk about it and work on it!

There is a group on this app called Sex and Relationships, the moms there are so helpful with this stuff!

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