Am I being extra? (Rant)

My body is overdrive sensitive and my boobs hurt so much and honestly lately it feels like my partner just gets a kick out of causing me discomfort and saying I’m being dramatic when I yelp 😞 Like he keps jokingly slapping my boobs and flicking my nips and he’ll say it wasn’t that hard and he’s always done that Today he’s done it 3 times alone and before work I was lovingly kissing him bye and he randomly smacked my boob and it sent a shock of pain through me and I damn near wanted to cry and I was like “whatever just go to work bye” and he’s like “your exaggerating” But if I went to do that to him especially if he’s got swollen boobs in the 2nd trimester he’d probably scream at me and ignore me all day But he won’t even let me flick him back or anything so it certainly don’t feel like a joke if I can’t even do it back It’s so silly and I been letting it go for months but he’s so so dismissive about my pain that it’s kinda getting to me

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Awh, yeah, I'd be pissed too. Like wtf too be honest, my husband has done this to me a few times, too, and it HURTS! He said it's not that hard to me once. I finally told you, "Don't get it, it really hurts!" And he apologized and told me he misses being playful with me. I told him I got a butt 😆 but the boobs are off limits because my body changing for the baby and it hurts. I told him, " would you be in a playful mood if I slapped your balls?" Nah you wouldn't be, he would be livid that's were I am at. He said ok and I could tell he felt bad. Maybe you need be real with him and if still doesn't respect you I would be curious if he is the person for you because what he going be like when you give birth or that your pain doesn't matter to him. Your pain should be his #1 because he is your partner. You know?!

Shiiiit if I were you I’d give him one more chance at having you genuinely explain to him that hitting your boobs hurts, and if he did it again I’d be gone. Father of the child or not. Who needs a “father” that tormented their mom all through the pregnancy? If he wants to not think about you then you and the baby are ALL you need to think about, forget his ass. But that may be just me because I don’t take shit from people very well, I’m quick to cut someone off if they ignore my needs/what I’m saying.

I'm assuming he's never been pregnant so not sure where he thinks he gets a say in what's painful or not. Or what's too hard or not. Aside from that, no is no. You said no he should stop, he doesn't get to decide your boundaries. Hit him in the balls next and tell him it wasn't that hard. lol jk maybe don't do that. But he's being that ridiculous.

Wow, like that fucking sucks ... I assume he has other qualities but fuck that is shitty as hell ... Very very very shitty, sending good energy ✨

I agree with some of the above. The boobs HURT and you are not being dramatic about that. If he still isn’t understanding because he’s dense then slap him in the balls… him not believing you is absolutely ridiculous

I couldn't even roll over from one side to the other without my boobs hurting. I couldn't imagine someone smacking and flicking them all the time. It doesn't have to be hard to hurt. You're fucking pregnant! I wish I were a friend or family witnessing this. I'd cause him serious pain for you.

Girl, go ahead and cry real tears next time. Be dramatic but serious at the same time. Maybe he'll get it then

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