@Marisa I’m trying but every time I do, I get made out like the bad guy and I’m tired of it. I was made out to be the villain by so many people for so many years. With the amount of trauma I have with yelling…
I would say talk to your bf and tell him how your feeling and you need him to help you talk to her bc I had to do the same with my bfs mom I’m only 18 and my baby boy is only a month old she isn’t trying to parent my baby but when ever me and her son get in a fight she butts in and acts like I do nothing and I shouldn’t ask my bf for help when I need it bc he’s in college and works but I get 2 hours of sleep every night and then I’m up all day doing his laundry his the dishes and everything else for him along with the baby so sometimes I just need help so when she tried turning me into the bad guy I talked to my bf and he made her stop (we also live with his parents I was kicked out of my house at 16)
Best advice to say how you feel, if she can't accept it she doesn't care for her granddaughter. Think about your daughter not her feelings.