Birth certificate

I was with my ex for off and on for almost 2 years, he lied about his divorce and filed after we were dating. Broke up and got back together. He was telling me crazy stories about his ex who he has a son with. After we broke up he would use his son to get me to come over by having him call and message me. Fast forward to September of last year, found out it was all lies he was saying about his ex. It was him doing crazy things. I’m now 37 weeks and we are not married and have never lived together but he wants me to put him on the birth certificate. He has already stalked my ex who I have 50/50 with of my 11 son. He is not stable. But everyone is telling me I should just let him be there. Any advice? Please no mean comments.
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That sounds like more of a safety concern more then anything. You should really do whats best for you and your child. He can be on the birth certificate (only because it really doesn’t make a difference since his the biological father) but if things get dangerous you should take legal matters. You can file restraining order now and push for monitored visits or full custody. I’m sorry that you are having to go through that.

I wish you the best of luck. Please stay safe.

You don’t have to put him on the birth certificate! He can take the effort to establish paternity if it is a genuine safety concern.

Nope. Don’t do it

It's your decision Mama's, whatever you feel is necessary go for it! In the end think of the long run with his mindset not being stabled, but at the same time you are right he is the biological father.

I would be careful. If you put him on the certificate, It will make it much easier for him to fight about custody. If he is not on there, it’s on him to establish paternity if he wants custody.

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