I'm experiencing it right now! I've learned to pick my battles, my toddler wants more cheese puffs before he's finished lunch we sa "you can ABSOLUTELY have more cheese puffs.. After we finish this though" sometimes he needs a little push toward finishing like me helping him eat his lunch. But the agreeing and redirecting seems to work so far. I hope this helps!
Hi! Mom of 4. Two of them teenagers and an almost 3yo and 7mo. All kids are different. Sounds like normal 2yo behavior but this time you have so much more going on. You are so strong and brave for all you do. Bonus points for homeschooling. I'm not sure I could do that. Stay the course. This is only a season.