Does this seem weird to you?

My sister in law who is my roommate, put dead roses by my window. As an African woman, this is weird to me. By the way, she doesn't like me. How do you discard your dead roses?
Like
Share Mobile
Share
  • Share

Show your support

Spiritually, roses (even dried up) don’t usually indicate anything negative. They represent love and beauty and purity etc. But I guess it is more about her intention of why she left them there! Intention can change that stuff!

What way does window face? Was she just trying to dry them and that was best window? Or are they in a vase already dead and she just moved them to your space?

My intuition tells me she didn’t mean anything by it don’t overthink it. I usually place my dead flowers in a plastic bag, tie it up, then dispose outside

Not really, it seems like she was maybe drying them or wanted to put dried flowers in your room. A lot of people dry flowers, but we can’t know her intention. Personally I bury them or put them into a compost bin. Dried petals are great to throw into a bath.

@Stephanie they are dead laying on the floor. My parents told me they represent death..

Just ask her why did she give you dead roses why not alive ?

She just put them on the floor. We don't talk to each other so I won't. I am getting ready to move soon.

What do yall think of the pink rose? My husband thinks he got it like that, or he doesn't remember. So you think he got it like that? It looks fresh while the others are dead!!

@Caitlin they were just on the dirt laying there. We haven't talked since our last argument 6 months ago. Ever since then, I have felt this dark energy around and weird stuff like the flower start to pop out.

The pink flower is a carnation not a rose! They last a long time and are common to come in flower arrangements!

Also if you feel a weird vibe from the roses from your SIL I would toss them somewhere away from your home

@Jasmine yeah, but the weird thing is it didn't come with the rose when my husband gave it to me. I just saw it today ! I had these since a week ago

@Jasmine she just discard them close to our room. I've been in the house for 5 years this is the first time I've seen her doing this type of thing. She would always put them in the trash!

That is super strange! Carnations are another good flower spiritually so I would say it’s not a bad sign! And it looking more fresh does make sense as they last Forever even when cut. But the disposing of flowers in your room is weird for sure. Could just be her being annoying maybe? 🤔

@Jasmine at home, they mean deaf like someone is trying to kill with black magic. She knows that too!

Try today for free
Scan the QR code and join the app
to connect with women at a similar stage in life.
Download Peanut to connect with women at a similar stage in life.

StarStarStarStarStar-Half

Trusted by 5M+ women

Logo
Try today for free
Scan the QR code and join the app
to connect with women at a similar stage in life.
Download Peanut to connect with women at a similar stage in life.

StarStarStarStarStar-Half

Trusted by 5M+ women

Logo

@Jasmine what does it mean?

Roses have the highest frequency amongst all plants. I think you are reading into this pretty deeply… like there’s loaded intent behind it. Your SIL may not like you but I don’t think her actions go any further than being careless or doing something right infront of you knowing that she could annoy you

If it means death then definitely get rid of it and if you believe in it do some cleansing and protecting of your space.

So they were left outside by your window? Are they in close proximity to a door? Not sure why she would put them there if they are yours instead of leaving them along or trashing them if dead. The flowers themselves all have positive meaning (pink carnation, red roses, and the filler is fern) so any ill intent is likely just passive aggressive behavior since y’all don’t talk. I wouldn’t invest too much into that and just toss them.

My dad told me not to pick them up. She put them there so not to touch it.

The carnation could of been dyed and faded through the stem into the water as it aged

@Stephanie yeah, literally 5 feet away from my window. She pass the trash to get to my place to discard them . She's wasting her him smh

Ohhhh that’s super weird then. I would definitely get rid of them. Maybe burn them to cleanse any energy associated with them? If you don’t want to touch them maybe put some crystals or something to cleanse them nearby before moving them.

Will do thank you. 😊

Read more on Peanut
Trending in our community