Giving up your kid!
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@Aryanna i love how you explained this hun, I agree 1 million %
@Aryanna i love your positive feedback. I needed to hear that. Im just venting i know this little guy I’m carrying i could never give up especially once i see his face . I know things for me is a bit hard right now . I’m not working i have a car but finding a daycare for my 11 month old is super hard bc they aren’t accepting him until he’s 1 so that kinda got me down . I’m just mentally tired.
A lot of times it feels like no one is willing to work with you and just give you a break and it’s easier said than done to create your own happiness, but it’s important to reach out and vent. Even if you don’t know who you’re talking to.
@Aryanna you hit the nail on the head. Pleas listen to her, I am adopted. My mom grave me up because she could not financially support me ( She already had a child). The mom that adopted me has money honey but was/ is emotionally unavailable. I personally would have rather have been broke. You got this momma. I’m also jobless and daycare costs would essentially take my check if I did have a job but someone told me about daycare assistance and I’m applying today! Maybe your state offers this as well?
Provide?! Like financially. Finances are important, extremely important. But it’s not the end all be all of what a child needs in order to be raised. I think sometimes people use being unable to financially support their child as the overarching reason to give them up when it seems to me like the underlining problem is that they can’t emotionally provide for them. Now you can’t send your kids to school wrapped in love and they can’t eat love but wanting your child is the first step in raising one. I wouldn’t give my kid up if I couldn’t financially support them perfectly. There’s many ways to make and get money and if you want to take the government route to help you out most if not all states have that option. I think, regardless of money you need to have the passion to raise your kid and with that you can make a lot of things happen.