Rest is important, especially when ill. We have cuddly days under a blanket, watching TV and reading books etc. The problem is when you're ill but your kids are feeling fine as they don't want to let you rest 🙈 But yes, totally ok to have down days. My eldest hardly ever went to toddler groups and he's fine. I take my youngest to one as we have a nice one close by but he's just as happy (if not more so) playing with his brother at home so I don't mind if we miss it.
Absolutely. We're not ill at all but we had a really rough morning and just spent the rest of the day lounging around as much as you can with a toddler 😅
Yes, its absolutely 💯 okay