TTC after 2nd trimester loss

We just lost our sweet boy Elijah at 15 weeks gestation almost 3 weeks ago. I ended up in the hospital for almost a week on IV antibiotics and a week more of oral antibiotics to kick an infection I got from the miscarriage. Still dealing with some issues from that, but that’s another story! I have two older children who were perfect, healthy, full term pregnancies. This was our first boy and first loss. Just curious how long after a loss did you wait to try and conceive again, and how did you battle the anxiety that comes with getting pregnant again after a loss? Losing him was unexplainable as to why it happened, so I’m terrified of losing another. I see a maternal fetal medicine dr soon to ask more questions and such, but wanted some input from other moms who may have gone through similar situations ❤️

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normal or infected?

5 weeks post c section , i went at the beginning of the week as my wound had opened completely different area to what’s leaking. was told it didn’t look infected. anyone know if this is normal coming off it, it’s only a little amount at a time

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Induction?

Anyone been induced before? Was it more painful? Better than thought? Worse than thought? Worth it? Thoughts?

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Ms. Aura Alyse is here 👑🌈🫶🏽

Worth the wait and pain. Baby girl arrived at 7:15 this am weighing 7lbs 6oz. She is so calm and chill.

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Induction or c section?

As a last resort, would you rather be induced or have a planned c section?

Really not liking the thought of being induced from people’s experiences I’ve read!

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I am so done with pregnancy !

Everything i do hurt . I sit down / i stand up / i walk / i lie down. I am in pain ! I am tired ! His mouvement hurt down there like electricity chock ! My back is on fire ! If i walk more then 5 minutes i feel like i am going to die ( low ferritine) the acid reflux is crazy . I mean i can’t and don’t wanna do this no more . Only 31 weeks !

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Has anyone ever had pain in the bone at the bottom of the lady area?

How I can only describe it is I feel like I have a fracture or the bone is broken right at the bottom of my vagina bone obviously don’t think it’s to the extent but that’s how it feels. I had it in my last pregnancy and the pain went few months postpartum now it’s back again with this pregnancy. These are the results that u e googled I think I may have the first one has anyone every had this or something similar

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