I NEED TO VENT

Ladies, it’s 4:44 am and I’m just so upset with my husband right now. I had a friend over for dinner and all of a sudden I was not feeling well, not sure if it’s food poisoning or gastro. I’m very rarely sick and ended up throwing up for hours. He’s a very supportive husband and I asked him to take over the night time routine. Of course the 1 NIGHT I am sick, the baby decides she wants to party at 3 am. I can hear in the monitor that he’s losing his patience. Of course, mama bear (me) wakes up and heads to the living room. He seems annoyed and upset ( I get it, a baby who doesn’t sleep is legit the worst. Then all of a sudden, he’s like playing with her and puts her head towards the ground?! WTF!!! I lost it on him. She’s only 3 months. It was so weird not sure if I am overacting because I’m just exhausted and sick but I almost started crying. I managed to put her to sleep in 5 minutes though 😂. That’s it! I feel much better now 😂

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What do you mean puts her head towards the ground?

Yeah that's my question

As in playing with her?

I’m so confused

What are you upset about? That he was playing with her or that he tipped her upside down a little bit whilst playing? Caus that’s totally ok and actually good for them and their balance and development. Not so great for getting a baby to sleep though!

I swear men are just the fun ones they don't know how to initially get babies- toddlers back to sleep lol. I've been in your shoes when my daughter was 5 Mo old. I got hit with COVID for the 2nd time but this time it was like my body was completely dead for 3 days & that was about it, I needed Tylenol but nothing compared to the 1st time. Needless to say that Friday came & my husband so nicely called out because I woke around 2am & heard him get up to go tend to our daughter😆❤️ at that age I would've left her alone but he was not used to her sleeping near him VS me🤣 id just either put my hand on her or LET her stay awake however long typically an hour max and she went back to sleep on her own by 5:30 maybe 6 on a good day she woke for the day❤️ so HE called out because come 2:20am she was crying confused why he even picked her up in the first place but initially she was playing bc he didn't know what to do 🤣 she crawled to my face he grabbed her giggling I knew that happened but I was so body sick🥺

What do u mean with head towards the ground? 3 months old is still very young and head needs supporting 🤨 , if i saw my partner doing that to our baby i would be going mad tbh’!! Hes the dad so having one night to attend to his child he should be helpin you out an seeing to his child. most men think us women have to do everything… it dont work like that x

I can’t even explain, it was like he was playing but mostly wanted to tease her because his patience was running real low. All good though, thank you ladies for hearing me out. Feeling much better today 💗

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