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@Ashley im using my guy friends 🤣 i don't trust banks
Just make sure to sign an agreement before you get pregnant!!!
I don't like the traits of some of my guy friends. Lol. It would definitely be cheaper as it is a very expensive process. I know it will be worth it once I become pregnant.
@Sarah wdym
So imma just say what’s in my head, I DO NOT mean this offensively or judgementally🤣 I promise🙏🏽 butttt if you’re trying to ‘trap’ the guy into coparenting, then you don’t have to. But if he knows you’re trying to conceive, you need to sign a notarized contract/agreement that he will not try to be involved in any way. That he has no legal rights and has no right or possibility to take you to court for custody. Also that you will not ask him for anything. Will not pressure him to be in the baby’s life, will not ask for money, or help. Pretty much no contact afterwards. You just have to think and talk about the level of involvement you want and protect yourself, your child, and him from any problems in the future
You are not alone. I am fairly new to the process as I will be having my second try this month. I am using a donor from a sperm bank.