Little rant

Hey mommas! My boyfriend and i have been together for 4 years now. We have a 9 month old baby boy….during my whole pregnancy he was very supportive….all though throughout my pregnancy he was very distant from me, I can’t help but to remember that I felt he was just so cold towards me. Once our baby arrived it was just a moment of joy and happiness. He took many pictures in the delivery room… When it had been time to get discharged we went home and I wanted all the cute pictures he had took at the hospital so I asked him if I could send them to myself so I did so…. I came across a screenshot of messages of him and another women exchanging numbers thru Facebook messenger…. I was in complete shock I went thru his phone and there had been calls that he made and she made to him thru my whole pregnancy I felt a bawl of emotions I’m like I just had my baby a moment to be happy and finding that really hurt knowing that he did that…. I brought it up to him and he claims there friends I’m like no no… like these calls were made late at night I guess I just can’t move on from that I feel like that was so low of him to do that to me like if your hiding it from me it’s cheating….. I just feel that made me view him differently and now I’m the distant one from him i don’t know if im overreacting I don’t know what to do any advice?

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Hey Mama, I'm here to support you. Remember, you're strong and capable of making the best decisions for yourself and your baby. If you ever need guidance or a listening ear, there are resources like counseling services or support groups that can provide valuable help. Stay positive and know that you deserve all the happiness in the world because it sounds like you're really going through a lot right now. It's tough when trust is broken in a relationship. But I strongly encourage you to prioritize your well-being, and your baby's well-being is crucial. If you feel that leaving the relationship is the best decision for you, we mamas support you in that choice. Your emotional well being comes first at this vulnerable time in your life and as you embark on this blissful yet challenging journey of motherhood. I hope you have friends and family that can be here for you during this difficult time and who can also help you explore your options.

I second @Kay. Wow, I’m sorry this happened to you. Continue to stay strong for your little one 🙏🏻❤️

If I may, Ive had my share of relationships. Someone who values what you have will always be upfront about whats going on in their lives. And if they make a mistake, they will attempt to correct it and reassure you. When i found my husband i finally understood that was true.

@Ana Perfectly said. When I found my husband, I finally understood this to be true, too! When I dated in past relationships and experienced finding my ex flirting through text messages or meeting other women, once confronted, he would become VERY defensive; similar to this young lady's boyfriend. Making me think that I was crazy because they're "just friends." There's a big difference between someone who values you versus someone who doesn't. A difference between a man and a boy.

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