Transportation/visits
My ex just picked up the kids for his second visitation. He wants me to pick them up in the morning "to be fair".
His first visitation I drove them to his house because he said his car broke and he wasn't going to see them.
My dad was always responsible for picking us up and dropping us off.
Should I "be fair" ?
What are your thoughts? What do you do?
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My son’s dad and I take turns to be fair. I pick him up when it’s my time to have him and he picks him up when it’s his turn to have him. We have a pretty even 50/50 split though
Personally, I would because I always want my daughter with me. You don’t gotta tell me twice, type of thing. I sometimes imagine how things would be if my partner & I split up & it gives me anxiety to imagine her going with dad for “his weekend.” Her dad though would not mind at all picking up & dropping off because he would also cherish the time with her & would take advantage of all the time that he can. In my opinion, there is no right or wrong but someday, if not now, your girls will know what is going on now & they will remember the memories. I’d say you make your decisions based off of that rather than on his immaturity/laziness or whatever his reasons are for not wanting to drop them off. Whatever you choose, there is no easy way. I hope I helped in some way, best of luck! 🫶