Worry about my future

It has been giving me anxiety thinking about the future, I was in college and I got pregnant. Thank god I finish it but I couldn’t start working. Now I’m 24/7 taking care of my child. My husband is working hard and he started his business, I just feel I’m not doing anything with my life , what happens if one day he leave me and I have nothing. He will have his business, his money and me??? I want to start working so bad but since I have never work before it makes me worry I’m not good enough or anyone hire me . Also we don’t have enough money for pay daycare . What are your thoughts girls? Anyone going through the same? I’m 25 btw😭

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If you’re married to your partner, would you not get half of everything in a divorce scenario? Sorry, it doesn’t say where you’re from so I’m not sure about locals laws. You can also choose to work in a year or few years in order to feel more secure in life?

Would you consider remote working? Depending on your field, I’d recommend to start looking for remote jobs, maybe an internship or part time to start with.

We got married in Albany NY, idk about the laws but I have seen girls saying that it’s really important have a prenup and I don’t have it 🥲 I would work remote, my baby is 11 months though and he just wants my attention all the time, idk how it would be work from home and having him next to me( crying for attention )😅

depending on the degree you have you can usually find something remote so you can stay home with your baby and still make a living

What is your degree in?

And have you ever had a job before?

I have bachelor's degree, and no experience working

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Im a little desperate already . Im not a huge fan on blowjobs but I’m doing it because I know he likes it . If he wants it in a car, during work meeting , on the balcony, on the beach everywhere I’m okay to do that . However, I’m not getting anything in return. I mean the last time he went down was more than 1.5 years ago . Okay, I was pregnant maybe he did not feel like doing it while I had a belly as he told me . , but I’m not pregnant already for awhile and I’m always telling him that I want him to go down and he is always having an excuse like “tomorrow “ etc . At the beginning it was funny and I was like okayyy but now it’s not as I’m not enjoying our sex in general . Like the process itself does not make me finish . As I’m breastfeeding and super dry down there and I’m always telling him to put lubricant as it’s hurting me . And sometimes it feels like I am begging for that as he is more comfortable without it , but damn IM NOT OKAY without it . So basically I do not remember when was the last time I have finished during sex . I understand that now with a baby it’s hard to fully enjoy it and have enough time for everything. But still . Just kiss me and put your dick inside me does not seems sexy . To be honest I understand why in marriage women does not want to have sex . Like I feel like it’s already work that I have to do not a pleasure. I’ve been telling him that but as I can see no changes applied 🫠

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Hey mamas! I’m back on here again hoping to find good friendships on here ! I didn’t really have any luck last time . I’m giving this another try again ! I’m 26 with two little girls I have a 4 year old and 8 months old and I am stay at home mom rn . I’m hoping to find friends who understand my situation and be able to talk everyday when they can . And I’ll be getting married in July .

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