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Motherhood is draining , and we can all relate to that, there's no right or wrong answers to your questions you want to ask , and you shouldn't be judged on the questions you want to ask. You need adult interaction for you're own mental wellbeing, I can relate to you, I find it hard to talk with others and I feel like they will judge me as a parent or person. I was stuck in my own head. I needed a different mindset and So do you 😊 please feel free to message me and we can have a chat and whatever it is going on in your mind I can reasure you that it's completely normal to feel how you are feeling 💖 I do agree with the mumma above you need a good nice girls day or a self care day and just make that time for you! Journaling is great to write down how you feel ? Why you are feeling like this? Etc you are not alone in this journey ♡♡
Hi I would say persist with the app but with caution. Don’t put too much pressure on/expectation on yourself. I felt the same at first but now I think I’ve found my balance with it as part of my bigger picture if that makes sense. Like a tool! Message me anytime. I understand how you feel. Xx
I've deleted this app before because it can be a negative place but for the most part it's great especially on those hard days where you feel alone and like nothing is going your way... theres always 10 other mums feeling the same. But this app isnt a replacement for real connections, are you able to get to any mum.and baby classes?
Tell your doctor!
Motherhood is definitely draining, especially so if you are lacking in a good support system. Even new moms can provide insight, advice and support to those who are further along in the mothering journey. Each of us provide different views of the world and everyone has something to offer, the trick is to " try" not to be too harsh on yourself if someone doesn't appreciate your input or if it doesn't go well with whomever you are advising. I would rather have extra advice I may not have thought of than continuing to struggle figuring out stuff alone. I think connecting as an adult is hard as our expectations, due to the ease of our social lives as kids, have set to our " ideal" friendships to look more like the ones we had while in our youth rather than the more complicated . Try to be easier on yourself and be proud you are still reaching out and giving your best!
Motherhood can definitely be draining even much more when you feel feel like you're alone. I've deleted this app before but i think its because i had expected too much from it at the time. Now I'm back and keeping and open mind without putting too much pressure. And i definitely get you on the lack of adult interactions. I'm a single mom and while i do have a lot of support from family i feel bad asking them to babysit so i can go out because they do so much already. That's where this app comes in for my. I chatted with a couple nice ppl and have enjoyed giving advice or commenting of different post. So if you want someone to talk to you feel free to message me
It will get better and yes having even an app to talk to strangers on helps and who cares if u "say the wrong thing" we are all moms here and we are not perfect that's why we don't judge here
It sounds like you need a nice girls day or a self care day . I think honestly opening yourself up to new people will bring you to getting out more even with your babies joining . So many events that have mommy and me days where you can meet other moms . Don’t give up on your happiness and mental health , you can’t fill your babies up with an empty cup .