Potty training

I see this on here a lot but I’ve tried the no diaper thing with my daughter for potty training and constantly asking “do you need to potty?” Etc and she will just pee where she stands when I’m least expecting it 🥲 should I revisit later? She turned two in March. I’m in no rush but I know it won’t happen over night & I’m due with our second in May so some potty usage would be nice 😅

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Read Oh Crap Potty Training!
My son did this at first as well. We just kept working at it. We potty trained in February a month before he turned 2!

On day 6 of potty training here. It gets better! She mostly goes in the potty but still some accidents. I have her trying to go every hr and using rewards (candy, stickers, stamps) when she goes in the potty

My pediatrician recommended Oh crap ! Potty training This past week…

This is what has worked for me previously with my boys. (I’ll be starting in a month or so with my 2yr old) we also go straight to undies as well, no pull-ups during the day. I don’t ask. For the first 2 to 4 days we don’t go anywhere and focus. I have a potty in the room we are in, or outside. I pit them on the potty every 20 minute and let them know that’s where we go. When we get even a tinkle we go crazy happy and do a potty dance. I have a feeling with my 2yr old I’ll be rewarding with an M&M. Keep up the positive reinforcement. I also made sure to have LOTS of underwear so I wasn’t washing constantly!

Good luck!!

I saw something about a 3 day potty training. I haven't tried it cause I work full time and can't be at home 3 days straight but it's where you go pantless for 3 days. The first 2 days you go pantless and anytime they pee or poop you make a big deal of it and yell out "you're peeing" or "you're pooping" and run them to the potty and have them sit for a few minutes. The 3rd day you add pants/underwear back into the mix and put them on the potty every 30 minutes to an hour and make a big deal of it everytime they go

I know 3 people that have tried this and 2 out of 3 had success. I’m going to be trying this soon but I’m just trying to get mentally prepared…

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Does anyone have a child that’s a bit “different” when it comes to in law’s family? 😅😂

My sister in law is having a conversation with my 4year old and ask what their favorite tv show is and my 4/yo response “stranger things” and absolutely no comment when she said that 😂
She ask what is their favorite food and my 4yo says “spam” their response is “huh? What? “
Then asks what their favorite candy is and my 4y/o responds “no I don’t eat that. It’s not good for you” no response again 😂
I feel like there’s an expectation they have towards my kids
If they ask what their favorite tv show is they’ll expect a “Mickey mouse Minnie Mouse” that type of stuff for ex
Please tell me I’m not the only one and how do yall feel about it?😅😂

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How would you serve it to a 6 month old please? Is it boiled water, formula or mix with cows milk?? I don’t trust google and can’t for the life of me remember what I did for my daughter lol

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I’ve given and submitted the code for the 30hrs funded hours to my sons nursery and we are due to start April 1st. Basically I put his start date as the first day he is eligible for it.
I have just received my invoice and they are charging me for the full 50hours a week with no funded hours on there.
I have emailed them to clarify but just wondering about other people’s experiences. Am I right in expecting the funded hours to be applied from my first invoice, or is it possible that because the invoice has to be paid BY April 1st (before the funding kicks in) that I have to pay the full cost despite the hours I’m paying for being after April 1st.

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