I know I’m ruffle a lot of feathers with this post

I just don’t understand how a lot you females can get up everyday go to work and take care of the kids mean While your significant other sits on his or her ass and refuses to work or even look for a job . Then you’ll be like I still have to cook and go food shopping when I get home . I’m sorry is your significant other legs and hands broke too cause ain’t no way in hell . Please stop collecting men who are users they look for a strong woman that they can lean on to do all the heavy lifting and the only thing they have to provide is sex .

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I agree with your message but the delivery and your assumptions don’t help anyone. I think we should have more grace for people that are in situations like this. Not everyone has the ability, financial security or physical/emotional support to get out of these situations.

@Ashley no situation easy to get out people need to accept some responsibility. People treat u how u allow them this is not me speaking out of my ass I’m speaking from experience. The moment I accepted responsibility I’m a past relationship for how someone was disrespecting that was my enlightenment.

Relationships like the one you stated above are abusive and toxic. The one perpetrating said abuse is the one who should take responsibility. I’m also speaking from experience so I guess we agree to disagree.

I never said they should take responsibility at all so maybe what I said went over your head . If someone not trying correctly then of course they are wrong but there is a saying for a reason try people how u wanna be treated and also people treat u how u allow them and it’s true . Narcissists favorite line is I’m sorry and if ur a forgiving person it’s okay but once u stop accepting those sorry and treat them how they treat u and demand respect the dynamic changes this doesn’t just apply for romantic relationships is the same for family members or friendships.

When we love our selfies and have high self stern things that we accepted before makes u sick to ur stomach now thinking about it later on

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