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I’m so sorry for your loss .. it’s so normal to feel sad ! I have recently had a MMC at 12 weeks after seeing a heart beat at 9 weeks .. it was so shocking and unexpected. Just be patient with yourself and your feelings. I found for me it was very overwhelming dealing with having a D&C and then realising it’s something that won’t go away however gets easier the more you surround yourself with people who can support and love you through it. Hopefully you heal physically and emotionally quickly and then can start trying again and get your rainbow baby 💖💖
So sorry for your loss 💕 Please take the time you need, to process what's happened and your feelings. It's so difficult. Emotionally and Physically. Sit on the sofa, with you favourite snacks, box of tissues and cry. If you need to reach out to the GP and get signed off work. Try not to bottle it up (so glad you haven't gone incognito) be honest with those around you. 1 in 4 pregnancies, we need to talk about this, it's more common than people think. Your partner may react differently to you, that's okay too. No one tells you that you're really fertile in the next few weeks/months or so. Only you and your partner can decide, if that's right for you. Personally my rainbow baby came very quickly after our loss and I didn't enjoy my pregnancy because I was grieving. Sending hugs 💓
First of all, I am so sorry for your loss. I had a MC 2 weeks before Christmas, and it SUCKS! Your feelings are valid!!! You are allowed to feel any way you need to, to process what has happened. Please be kind to yourself and take your time.