Cont: I would look at what your local ICB have agreed to fund, if it is only one round like my area it might change your opinion about waiting for NHS treatment. We decided to go straight for private treatment (ICSI) and I'm now pregnant from our first ever transfer
I think the reason you need to see a gynaecologist is because the treatment to have a child if the male partner has low sperm is IVF. So although it’s your partner that has a “fertility issue” it would be predominantly you going through a treatment. I may be wrong, but I’m pretty sure all they will do for men is check for blockages (which he presumably doesn’t have if there is some sperm present) and then recommend lifestyle and dietary changes. Good luck x
In the meantime, make sure you are aligning health markers for yourselves to give your scores the best chance. I’d recommend reading “it starts with the egg” which tells you all about supplements and improving egg and sperm quality. The nhs system can take a while and they sometimes want to do chromosome testing on the male which takes 6 weeks alone to get the results back. I’d say do your part now so you are giving yourselves the best start.
It's correct he needs another test, they sometimes recommend 3 months apart but 10 weeks sounds ok, this is because factors can vary so much between tests so they always need 2 to compare. Referrals also have to be in your name as you're the one going through "treatment", I found this quite confusing as well as I don't have any fertility issues it's only male factor. Some places like you to have gynaecology testing done to ensure there isn't combined infertility, just to ensure your tubes aren't blocked etc. It's likely they will not refer to a urologist, as the "treatment" is IVF, so urology can't do anything to help. My husband has a varicocele and they said it wasn't guaranteed to improve his sperm if it was treated, as a huge portion of the population have varicoceles and have babies anyway, so they're not certain it would be making a difference. This is why we didn't pay for a privaye urologist in the end, and chose to get on with treatment anyway. Cont: