Coping with loss

I have the same feeling. I miscarried on Monday. Always here to talk. This is new to me as well 🤍

Thank you 🤍 According to the ultrasound I miscarried on Friday. I went to the ER Monday night for severe cramps and that’s when I started clotting. I saw my hcg dropped significantly, the baby stopped growing, and they couldn’t find a heartbeat. But yet they told me I’m okay and everything is fine. I went to my OB and that’s when she told me. I have an ultrasound appointment on Saturday to confirm

Yes keep me updated on how it goes! Are you still bleeding? I had been feeling bad all of last weekend so I decided to go to the er. They told me I was severely dehydrated and low potassium so they treated that. Then they did an ultrasound to check the baby and right before they started I started to bleed. They then saw there was no yolk sac and viability in the embryo and bleeding around my uterus. They let me go home and that’s when my cramping got worse and the sac passed when I was in the bathroom. Tomorrow I’m going to the ob to what was suppose to be my first time hearing the heartbeat but instead confirming the miscarriage. This feels like a fever dream if I’m being honest but I also had an intuition that something was wrong

Yeah, for me they still saw the fetal pole. I’ve been to the doctor’s 3 times and the ER 3 times since I’ve been pregnant. My husband and I went to the zoo after the doctor’s appointment just to take my mind off things. We stayed for a while until the cramping kicked in. It was so bad that I couldn’t walk to someone picked us up and took us to the car. I took a bath when we got home and when I stood up out of the bath, two huge clots fell out. But I was in so much pain on the drive home, I couldn’t cry. I just kind of passed out until we were 5 minutes from home. And the zoo is an hour away

I'm so sorry for your loss. I didn't know how to handle it when I found out my baby had stopped growing (it was a missed miscarriage) but talking about it has been the most healing thing for me. I think I was in shock at first when the miscarriage actually happened even though I'd been bleeding and was expecting it. It's such a horrible experience. Be kind to yourself, cry when you need to and talk about it when you want to xx

I also feel the same! As the days go by, I'm finding myself becoming very sad, empty & fustrated!