Dilemma..

My husband and I just got married in October of last year. Im 24 weeks pregnant and I want to leave him. I truly thought we were made for each other but all we do is fight and he has started calling me names and saying really mean things calling me a nutcase if i get upset or a clown. It hurts so much. I work my ass off everyday working full time and taking care of my 5 year old, keeping up with all the house work and this pregnancy has been extremely hard as im diabetic. I feel like he should be more sympathetic towards me but he isnt. He tells me i do nothing meanwhile all he does is work 5 days a week and than sleep and play video games. I dropped all my friends cause he said he hates them and they aren’t good people but now im just so lonely and have absolutely no one. Ive talked to him about how i feel and all he does is laugh and act like im joking. Im depressed im so truly depressed. I love my baby and dont regret him but jist wish i wasnt bringing him into this situation.. :(

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Hun that sounds like a narcissist in the making and an abusive relationship getting ready to start. Divorce him immediately. You deserve 100x better than that. You’re pregnant with his kid the absolute least he can do for you is help around the house when you need it. He’s an ass and he’s definitely not worth anymore of your time.

Leave girl. Quickly!

I can’t imagine having to make that kind of decision especially while being pregnant with his baby but you’ve gotta do what’s best for you and your kids. If he treats you this way it is very likely he will treat the kids that same way

Leave asap love before it gets worse

babe, this sounds like it could turn violent very quickly. you need to leave for your own safety and for the safety of your child. he’s already isolated you, now he’s trying to destroy your self esteem. next thing you know, he’s putting his hands on you/your child and may even go as far as to put you in the hospital. if been in your shoes, naively stayed thinking he would get better because he loved me, and was almost killed from how bad I was beaten. you need to go, my love. and you need to do it ASAP.

Please please listen to all of us some of us are speaking from experience💜

This is exactly how abusive relationships start. He wins you over with his charm You put all your trust in him He slowly cuts all your friendships out Then your family Until you are alone And then traps you Once you are stuck, the monster comes out Starts verbally but WILL turn violent You have to leave If not for yourself Then please do it for the babies

I’m so sorry you’re going through this, must be so difficult emotionally. You deserve to be cared for, not mistreated. Might be easier to leave now than after the baby’s here. Call a women’s shelter/abuse hotline in your area & get help on leaving safely. Don’t just walk out or tell him you’re leaving in advance, he may get more angry seeing you leave with his unborn child & it can become dangerous for you. Reach out to a trusted friend or family member.

Omg I'm so sorry! What a burden he is! Please find safety and support and leave as soon as you can before it gets worse! What kind of man makes their pregnant wife wor

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