Hello so my mother-in-law has a really bad habits with money

So me and my partner and our 3 kids have put up with his mum for the last 3 years and I don't know how to tell her to get the fuck out of my house😫 She's going off at her son who is my partner because we said no to not giving her money. mind that she's not paying for anything or helping out with the shopping and she likes to bring her young children over and they help themselves to our shopping. Like wtf I'm so over it🤦🏻‍♀️

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Your partner needs to tell her it’s time to move out, and if needed the same conversation with all three of you.

We have asked her and talked to her nicely and she won't leave. It's just that she's putting more stress on me. We even ask her to move back to her daughter. But she said no she doesn't want to move back because she knows her daughter will ask her to pay for 300 a week for rent and food. She likes staying with me and my partner because we don't ask her to pay anything she uses all her money on gambling or pokies and when all her money is gone she starts asking for money from me and everyone in the family. She needs help ASP.

You need to put your foot down and not make it so easy, she can go to her daughter’s house and pay 300 or stay at yours and pay 350? She is using your good nature. Put those cranky pants on and stand firm 💕

Do it legally if she won’t leave willingly. File an eviction and go from there if she wants to act like that. I know it’s probably not ideal but it’ll show her you’re serious and make her endure the consequences of her actions.

I just don't know how I tried everything, even her daughter doesn't want her to move back to her house it's because of her money problems. she needs help. I even told her to move back to her ex-partner's house but she won't.

There were a few times she started crying in front of my kids and my kids felt sorry for her and they asked me why is Nana leaving.i told them that Nana needed to go and stay with Papa for now but she just says to them no your parents are kicking me out of your guys house🤦🏻‍♀️

She is trying to manipulate you through your children, that’s not okay! You need to just answer back exactly what the situation is.

Every time she's mad it's always about with no money oh you guys don't wanna give me any money 🤦🏻‍♀️

I just found this online, since she doesn’t pay rent you can’t evict her as a tenant but you can evict her in New Zealand as a squatter https://www.justanswer.com/newzealand-law/klw5h-remove-sibling-parents-house-new-zealand.html