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*sigh* he definitely doesn’t appreciate you. He’s mentally abusing you
Leave before your kids are old enough to remember him saying stuff like that to you. I grew up in a house with similar vibes. It was not great.
@Mee @Tee @Haley I always thought it was me like I talk about my self all the time an put my self down cause hes always harping on me to get a car an a licences so I don't have to depend on him an he's always saying with out those things I will never get anywhere in life an trust me I so want to get a car an my license but I don't have no one helping me practice how to drive ' an he says some hurtful as shit to me that I ball in tears an wish that I was never here in life but I love my kids to much to even think about hurting my self
Just read your profile. You are young. It's not you... It's him. Seems like you met him when you were VERY young. Is he your age or much older? Even if you get a license, it'll be something else in the future.
@Mee I met him when I was 14 an he was 13 and he's now 25 an I'm 26
@Dawn elevation is key especially when you want to prosper. He does have a point on the license part, however there are better ways he can go about your growth and doing it together so you don’t feel bad all the time. He also has to be willing to change and if he continues being a jerk it’s not healthy to stay any longer in that relationship
You’re just gonna have to do drivers Ed classes and learn how to drive, save whatever ssi you can and leave him. Yall can co parent or whatever but he’s emotionally abusing you. You have 4 kids get on the public housing list in your state, get food stamps, wic, etc. and build up from there
He shouldn't treat you like that because of that. I don't really know how to drive and I'm 26 too and my husband married me and doesn't judge me for it or say stuff like that and doesn't even expect me to have the house clean and supper cooked before he gets home and helps with those things. I'm sorry you deserve better and the right person won't care about that and will help you.
He's telling you he doesn't want to marry you and doesn't appreciate you. I don't think he's mincing his words either. There is no underlying meaning. Do you have a plan to leave? Start a new life without him? My guess is you're still young and have a lot of wonderful life to live without a man that doesn't appreciate you for you ❤️