None of it is ok. But the putting bruises on you guys’s child. Absolutely not. I think what Casey said is smart about getting a police report/ protective order. Going to a domestic violence shelter. Maybe since the business and everything is in your name there is something you could do to split the business, through court, once you get out. But I’m not sure either way on that.
Is enough going to be enough when you lose a child? My son had PTSD with my emotional abusive relationship. My son took his own life at 16. Or is enough going to be enough before you lose a child? Document everything, when and what happened. It's very important to include how it made you feel. How it makes you feel very important when proving emotional abuse. It's not silly to write it down. Your feelings are not silly. They are valid. You may not be ready to leave now but start documenting. And give the domestic violence shelter a call, just talk to them. They can tell you how to safely leave. At very least start this process. When you are ready the domestic violence can help you and give you resources and such. The torture I go threw every day. The images of the last few times I saw my son, dead does not leave my brain. I see it daily. The way I found him, trying to save him and the very last was on the table at the funeral home. You think it's bad now? Save your kids, get them therapy.
Please please protect your self and especially your child. Your child do not deserve to grow up in a dysfunctional family. When a man started to physically harm you, thats it. I agree with all the comments here. If the business is under your name, the court will sort it out. Please stay safe.
He will kill you. A man who is already putting hands on you (and your child) will escalate. He will not change. This is who he is. Don't let him take you away from your children. Don't let your children resent you for staying with a violent man and not protecting them. File a police report and get a restraining order if you can. Go to a domestic violence/women's shelter.