Am I wrong ?

Sometimes I wanna go off on my baby daddy because he haven’t provided nothing for his daughter…. He don’t put in the effort to see her unless I am down where he at which is a hour away not that far …. he sometimes wanna talk to me then next min he don’t … she not even born yet but it’s the thought tha counts I have 3 almost 2 months left nd I haven’t seen not one piece of clothing nor pampers or wipes or lotion or soap for her bought from him .....I don’t even think he told his family about him having a child otw …. Idc to kno the reason why not maybe it’s because he don’t wanna get kick out his people place Idm tho it takes two to make one not one to make one

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In this instance, I don’t think you necessarily wrong but you are definitely expecting too much. You’re right it takes two to make one but at the end of the day you were the one that got with him that was your choice. I feel like nowadays we have to go into relationships expecting the worst possible outcome and you have to accept those worst possible outcomes. I don’t know why were surprised by repeated behavior…. I’m assuming he’s just your baby daddy and not your boyfriend again you can’t expect things from people who have given you absolutely nothing before you buy pregnant let alone after

Sorry you dealing with this. I think it’s natural to want more support from the guy you created life with. I guess the real question is has he supported you prior to pregnancy or any other time? If he hasn’t, then like Trinity said you may be expecting too much from him. We can expect things from people who never showed us the thing we’re looking for before. I’ve learned I’m married some men still don’t believe that the child is there is low-key. My own husband of 7 years asked me for a DNA test. And he also didn’t provide anything but baby look exactly like him.

Sadly, you need to have it in your mind that you're gonna be caring for your baby by yourself. Fatherhood starts at conception. The moment he found out you were pregnant, he should've been on his A-game. I'm so sorry🫶🏾 I know it hurts. Take everything into consideration. After your baby's born, if he's not gonna help you, DO NOT let him sign that birth certificate. He's gonna have right to the baby even if he decides not to contribute. That can get ugly really fast. If you plan on putting him on child support then he's gonna need to sign the birth certificate or at least prove paternity which also gives him rights to the baby which can get ugly really fast.Sit and think about how to proceed because he's showing red flags already 💕

@Trinity✨ before yes he was there before the pregnancy but iam atp idc I just want alil support from him or for him to do alil for his child my family and friends around has provided for her idk 🤷‍♀️ anymore i done start being the bigger person

@Lauren sweetie it’s fine and yes before he was there but they say pregnancy changes things

@Sunset at least you understand nd honestly idk if he will be at her birth I told him nobody stopping him from being then for his child

Sometimes Men Just Don't Do Anything During This Time & Don't Really Know What To Do Especially If Yu Aren't Together . Dont Expect Anything During This Time , Reality Hasn't Hit Them Yet . Try To Stop Stressing Over What He Isnt Doing . It Sucks But 🤷🏽‍♀️