It feels revenge porny without the revenge aspect, like is it a "spank bank" situation, is it potential revenge? Either way, not cool imo. It would make me feel uncomfortable and borderline unsafe like if we don't work out what photos do you have of me and who will see them, how long does he plan to keep all of this. Just weird. Once the situation ends with someone, you definitely delete that stuff.
Yea I think it’s weird like what’s the reason 🥴
Absolutely not even a little bit ok. And don’t buy the “I didn’t even know they were in there. I don’t look at them” BS if he tries to pull that crap.
Yea. It’s frustrating and he definitely says he didn’t know
Yeah that’s a load of complete bullshit I’m sorry
It’s not ok for you and not for the women that are in there. Not ok at all.
Men can be disgusting. I found things on my partners phone. Worse than ex's but I forgave him for it. Remember you have power over if you forgive him or not. But if you do forgive him and want to move on. Let it go. Put it in the past and move on because otherwise it'll eat you up inside.
Are you sure it was an ex and not just some p@rn from the internet? I partake in watching that kind of stuff so it personally doesn't bother me, but I remember what it felt like when I was younger, it felt like cheating/betrayal back then. Unfortunately some guys are really hard to have a honest conversation about it because they are embarrassed and are probably used to their mother yelling at them for it from their teen years. If people didn't get shamed for it so often they'd be more open to a conversation about it. I personally need it to get my mind off of reality so that I can actually finish without some annoying thought turning me off completely.
I went deep and found her on his friends list from matching tattoos since face wasn’t in it
So not to justify his actions in any way but I recently got back into some of my old emails accounts and linked my Google drive to them well let's just say I'm glad I'm single because I definitely would have been after those photos downloaded. Smh some of them I didn't even remember getting some I didn't even know who they were anymore smh. Yeah but keep safe that's super sketchy
hey girl, I had to deal with that with my ex-boyfriend. If he’s doing that to you now there’s most likely no guarantee that he’s going to stop and definitely has no respect for you.