True or False: When men know they down on their luck that’s when they care!

When my husband knew I was over him not working and losing jobs he finally cared when he saw I wasn’t anymore. Fast forward I’m talking to a new guy. He literally stopped talking to me a month ago. Turns out he lost his job, cause he went to jail and just totaled his car today! He calls me trying to be sweet on me! and im sorry but what can you offer me right now? I was trying to get to know you for you before but you ghosted me and only trying to talk now cause you down on your luck! I attract the worst! 😩