@Carys think you. How do you help him to fall asleep in the cot?
@Katie we will first put him down at the end of the bedtime routine before he has a chance to start crying🥴 and see what he does. Usually he cries, so I'll go in and pick him up, let him really calm down in my arms, then put him down and stroke his head and shhh and stay there until he feels asleep. It takes patience, it's not normally quick! What position does she sleep in, when you're cosleeping? I.e back/side/front etc?
Unfortunately, consistency is key. But to start with, we had to transfer him into the cot when he was fast asleep. That's the only way initially we'd get him in there so he could become used to it. We still have to help him fall asleep in the cot