Devastated (accidental gender reveal)

I’m so sad. When i was pregnant with my son (almost 7) my husband at the time blurted out my sons gender at my anatomy scan. And I’m pregnant again and my ultrasound tech (after telling her four times i want to be surprised) accidentally told me. I know she’s human and I’m not mad at her but I’m so sad. WHY CANT I BE SURPRISED?!

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You're just gonna have to have a 3rd lol. I get your frustration though. We were having a gender reveal for my family and my boyfriend decided to say before the reveal, "My family is so excited for their first granddaughter." 😑

Aw man that’s even worse!!

Ugh I’m so sorry your surprise was ruined! If it makes you feel any better, I am in a similar situation. First off, I ruined my own gender reveal on purpose by finding out alone with the NIPT results and I deeply regret it. This is our first (and likely our last) baby which sucks even more. I also made the mistake of telling my oldest sister who has NEVER been able to keep a secret. She’s already told at least 6 people that I know of. I wish I wouldn’t have looked at the NIPT gender results when I did. And I NEVER should’ve told my sister what the gender was. I’m not mad at her or anything, but it’s really annoying bc I begged her not to say anything. She was telling people my baby’s gender before we even told my husband’s family I was PREGNANT! Arrgghh! Plus I won’t even get to surprise my adult niece and nephew because they already know. It’s really disappointing. Sorry to hijack your post. I’ve been bottling that up for over a month now. Just know you’re not alone! 💗

Oh no! Super frustrating!!!