Libido is nonexistent

I’m 20 weeks and my libido is just completely gone. It’s actually at like a negative 100 at this point. My husband never pressures me and never would but I know he has needs, so I try to muster up the motivation at least 1-2x a week to be intimate. I’m not physically uncomfortable yet, I’m just not into it and it feels like such a chore. Anyone have advice or know if this gets better with time? I feel like many women experience the complete opposite and want to do the deed more often!
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Omg, I totally experienced the same thing! My libido just spiked last week at 20 weeks…just to find out this week at 21 that I have placenta previa and can’t have sex until my placenta moves, which may not even happen! lol I totally understand the guilt and trying to be intimate even when it feels like a chore. I’m sorry and I hope it spikes for you so you can enjoy it! I honestly didn’t think it would ever come back, but it did! Just take it day by day 😊

Didn’t get better for me until several months postpartum, tbh, but everyone is so different. I hope it improves for you soon!

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