Help. Sorry this is long..

My husband and I are currently separated as his family kicked me out and my son causing marital problems between us, the first issue was I never lived with them at the beginning of our marriage and because I wanted my own little place be it a shed or an flat, they assumed I was trying to take their son away? We went to theirs every single day still just slept at ours at night, they caused many issues between us where we did nothing but come home to argue in the evenings, sometimes i did too much or too less either and way it felt like they wanted to control me and later in our marriage they made it known once when he was on a night shift and then lied to him about everything, his mother literally said If i want something to happen, he will respect me and make it happen and you as his wife will have to respect him and make it happen- basically initiating she’s my boss and don’t forget it. It became so toxic they had us arguing a lot, I went to my parents and he asked me back and said things would change, his parents did not know this so when his dad came to ask me back he made it out as if this was my last chance don’t blow it or your marriage is over like it’s his dads decision. He was silent I was so confused but was trying to understand if he needed help with the courage to speak up and why was he so frightened? I went back we tried on many occasions to patch things, I didn’t want to go every day to avoid hearing sarcastic comments from MIL and SILs it was mentally draining being so far from family too.. I ended up pregnant I was so scared to mention this but I prayed and prayed and hope me and him would be stronger as he constantly reassured that he wouldn’t let them get in between us. They moved houses into a bigger house so we had space- we moved in because financially it was getting difficult for us… they got what they wanted. I kept my opinions shut simply not to aggregate anyone and became a shut off person, didn’t feel comfy speaking to my family worried someone would hear me - every time we went to my mums ge would come too i didn’t have any time to process my thoughts, 2 and a half years in baby was born and they were treating me nicely during pregnancy worried that ‘i would take the child and run off’ as his mum would sarcastically joke but i knew deep down no matter how much house work tea making and cooking and love and shopping i would do, i would never be looked at with love, i was a villain? My husband was prev married for 8 months apparently she took his money and left and hated his family? I was always so cautious not to portray an image like this but the more i think into this, maybe that poor girl seen the signs and ran. Every time i tried to leave at the beginning he made it out he needed me and his family don’t treat him the best and i don’t know the half of it- but i still have never been told the half of it. He has a great heart and caring and loves his son, it makes me cry because when we are good we are good, now his sister has been painting me to be a villain because i asked her not to snatch little ones toys off him because she’s ‘tidying up’ who does that!!??? He was 9 months old , it was repetitive I feel like she was being nasty to him deliberately because he was my child, they all switched with me once he was born - almost like they have him now. My MIL took him first night I came back from hospital and said she wants him to sleep with her, I had to ask nicely for him back. Honest to god i’ve done everything to try please his family and he doesn’t understand. A week after baby was born in ramadan i discovered he cheated on me- i was traumatised- still i didn’t tell my family anything i was reminded to think positive and il be rewarded in hereafter for being a good wife said my MIL, they made it out as if they were so upset with him but three days in they were all laughing and joking together whilst i still had this pain in my heart. It was not one women it was numerous. I go to the gym regularly, i look after myself - it wasn’t like i let myself go, im not saying with ego but i had quite a few proposals but i did not entertain any at the time, we saw an islamic councillor and worked through that but naturally I feel a lot more insecure than i once did, now fast forward to a year, this ramadan his sister causes a dispute, i thought he was messing about with someone we were speaking she heard the convo and got involved asked to read our messages - our intimate phone messages he showed her to prove a point??? who does that, naturally i got annoyed and upset- i felt violated, our trust? I’m hurting, in tears, his mum rushes up after sil tells her her version and grabs my son sleeping in my arms out of my arms- says give me my grandson, your not taking him away, you cause my son heartache all the time nothing but trouble- at this point the woman i called mum just pierced my heart , they kick me and my son out say we cause trouble turned it on me- worried that i will leave and tell the world what they have done they’ve painted this picture of me being kicked out for ‘trying to take son and my son away’ and in passing they’ve said they would do anything to protect their kids even if it means lie - i have always been raised islamically what’s right is right and what’s wrong is wrong- eg i use is if my brother treated my sil wrongly i will call him out for it. Not side with him because he’s my brother and accept bad behaviour. Doesn’t mean i don’t love him. I took my things and left husband said he’ll stay for work to provide for us till we find something, i’ve said i wanna move closer to my family and he’s said he doesn’t want to and apparently they treat him horribly doesn’t cook for him or anything- i’ve seen messages that state otherwise so i’m confused ….dunno what to believe before i left his mum said somethings i can’t forget, how my son will grow up to teach me a lesson and treat me like shit- who does that.. he stayed quiet whilst she ordered him to take some of my stuff out of the fridge for the little one. My concentration was just on getting out to home and safety with my little one. 2 months have passed i’ve applied to jobs there and here but i have mad anxiety going back, like when they turned up to my flat last time when he was at work just to shout at me and make me feel worthless… before this i was very confident and strong and happy and if anything the peacemaker for a lot of people sorting things out, but with these people there was no communicating- it’s their way or the high way… job opportunity closer to mum has come up- i went to interview told hubby he said he’d consider moving here if i found him a job and place- i’ve been looking, i don’t want our family to break for sake of baby, i do care for him, yesterday he came and said i won’t move at all, you will come there or this is finished. i’m feeling hurt upset betrayed and sad, i literally feel like i have ptsd when thinking about returning - i don’t feel safe at all. i think writing and reading this back will help me realise a few things inshaAllah, i can’t speak to my family, once they tell me to leave i will have to leave- so many times they’ve witnessed me coming back it’s embarrassing, please does anyone know what i should do, this job op will help me and baby and honestly still don’t understand how i got it alhamdulillah, hubby provides but feel like on eggshells asking him for stuff, we are just about surviving one wage and i’ve applied near his and i’ve had nothing, please can someone advise… sorry if this seems all mixed up, doing my best to get as much in whilst little ones asleep