I’m sorry you’re going through this, you’re doing a great job! It’s sounds like you’re tying lots of things! Have you tried trying to space out her feeds more during the day so that way she’s more hungry when you go to feed her and she takes a bigger feed then?
My 2.5 month old is very finicky about eating and sometimes she eats best when I stand up and walk around with her while she drinks a bottle. Especially when I bounce her a bit. I have no clue WHY but if she’s refusing to eat, sometimes this helps! I’ve also noticed that some days she eats a lot (24-27 oz) and some days not as much (20 oz) clearly she just eats on demand which I think is normal.
My 4th baby was like this.. it's so hard! I don't know if it was correlated or not but he is my only baby born with lip and tongue ties.. but he continued this behavior even after they were released.
I’m going through something similar but on formula my 3 month almost 4 is 1.5 weeks has been sleep through night doesn’t eat at night anymore. But I feel like he appetite isn’t the same as before he was eating every 3 hours sometimes 4 now sometimes he go 5 almost 6 hours and will turn down the bottle. So if he has a bottle 1030/1130pm before the night and we get up at 630/7am sometimes he drink a bottle but most time he won’t he wants the bottle around 9am/10am that’s a whole 12 hours just about no food. It worries me. He has about 4 wet diapers. Sometimes 3 of them are super big but still. I’m gonna bring it up to his doctor on the 3rd.